Are You Keeping Your Love in Silence?

“The little bit you and me might change the world”

Maloy smiled. ” It wouldn’t show up until a hundred years after we we’re dead.”

“We’d never see it.”

“But it’d be there.”

-James Jones, From Here to Eternity

So here’s another tearjerker video. Enjoy! 🙂

Have you ever wished your thoughts could be heard so its voice could reach the one you love?

Confessing your feelings to someone you love is not as easy as sipping a hot caramel coffee- that if you love the flavour you’ll really give your courage to drink it. You are prepared to endure the pain of every burning sip.

A friend once told me, “Sometimes pain is not so much about whether the other person doesn’t like or love you back, it’s about you not telling the person how or what you feel that’s why it hurts.”

You might say, “There is no rejection when you love someone is silence”. But you are actually afraid of rejection. There is a loud rotten voice inside of you wanted to unleash but you choose to keep it yourself.

You might say, “There are words that are better left unsaid”. The truth is you lack the courage to push it through.

But here’s the thing. Silence is not a tool for communication. Communication is a different thing. You will never understand a person unless you ask or communicate.

Sometimes, it’s good to keep your love in silence but the best way to understand what you really feel is when you communicate it to the other person. You may not know the consequences but at least you tried. You may finally have the assurance of what the other person feels about you- so it will keep yourself away from assumptions, pains and regrets.

“Love arrives exactly when love is supposed to.”

And

“Love leaves exactly when love must.”

Love is just everywhere.

At the end of the day, it’s still about you and what you feel. It’s about your choices and your willingness to face the consequences. But you don’t want to wait for forever then be surprised that it’s already late, right? ^_^

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